Need to Please

Okay Well If you don't already know this about me here is the brutal truth. I have an extreme need to please others. Yes for those of you that really know me you are shocked. But it has been brought to my attention more recently than ever. I wish I could say I am the only one in my household who has this but alas I am not. I have been carefully watching my oldest and see her also with this flaw. I believe that mine is rooted in a family member who is overly judgemental and harsh at times on my choices. therfore I compensate by over doing it to reverse thier criticism. Golden Boy tells me that I have to answer any question no matter if I know the answer or not. This lately has gotten me into several situations that are uncomfortable to say the least. I wish this was easily fixable preferably with some type of pill and very little work on my part. ya know "I wanna new drug" that helps me overocme this with no side effects. Why tell others about this if I am so embarassed about it. Well here we go I am trying to please some people who tell me I need to type more often on this blog and so here it is. Wow it never ends. So for anyone else who has this Need feel free to jump in and help a girl out.